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Submitted 13 Jun 2008 I feel the same way as you do. I grew up knowing I was different, just never really understood why I was different. About 14 or 15 I noticed little boys looked cute and I was always looking at them. Even before that I would watch movies like D.A.R.Y.L., Cloak & Dagger. At the time I dont think I had any idea why I liked those movies so much. Most the time I didnt want to hang out with boys my age, I liked hanging with the younger ones. Even now, I prefer spending time with kids or other friends who have the same attraction as I do. I have had many girlfriends, although I didn't like the idea of having to keep things from them so I would fall apart and find a way out of the relationship. Now I kinda give up on all I had planned like getting married, family, and the perfect life. I still believe I can have a good life, just different then I had imagined. I doubt I will ever grow up and act like an adult because I don't at all feel it! My friends are awesome! Some are gay, and some are like me although we all hang out together to make life better for us and the kids we love to hang out with. Oh, for those out there who read this stuff thinking we are all out just to molest little boys, you're wrong! I dont know anyone who has done anything sexual with a boy! Sure, the attraction is there although I believe we are the ones who should be looked on as great human beings cuz we have the attraction yet we still control it... How many str8 people can say that? Anyway, I know what your saying dude.. your not alone, your story was just like mine dude! kidshady (31) _______________________ Submitted 19 Oct 2008 Exactly the same for me. I don't act gay, and I can't stand guys that do, but I'm exactly like you. Tom (17) _______________________ Submitted 14 May 2009 I too have to same urges as you. I had a long-term girlfriend but that's why I broke it up - at first I though I was gay but then I realized I like girls but like preteen boys better. I have no clue what to do, I have no one to talk to, all i know is that i really, really dont want to be like this and need help because I hate and fear the low life scum I could be. Could you reply back to me? Lloyd (19) email on request Tom (17) _______________________ Submitted 13 Feb 2010 We are about the same age, and you are the first person I've ever heard of who has the exact same problem as I do. If you have tips or ideas on how to help, I'd like to hear about it. Markham (21) email on request

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