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Seeking is a place where young men can seek answers and reactions to their questions.

The focus of this website is young men and boys (under mid-20s) who are dealing with an attraction to boys under the legal age of consent - in many places 16. Attractions of boys 16+ for other boys 16+, or men, are considered "gay" but different from our focus. Attractions between boys a year or maybe two years apart are legal in many places, but might bring up issues of underage attractions depending on the feelings of those involved. Contributions are welcome from all, but we ask that they stay on topic.

Answers given by our readers are based on their own particular situations, perspectives, and experiences. They may help you to see things in a new way, or give you ideas on how to handle certain issues. On the other hand, keep in mind that they may not apply to your specific situation.

While this is not a place to meet other teens, we will provide email addresses, with permission, to other boys requesting them, at our discretion. We will not, however, publish them. All email addresses should be "safe".

New visitors: browse through index of questions.

Questions Answers
Name Age Question Date # Most recent reply
Matthew 20's My parents forbid me from discussing my attractions. 26 Feb 11 1 Drakar 12 May 11
Joel 12 I can get in trouble if I get porn of kids my age. 31 Aug 10 0
Mario 20 I won't be able to control my urges with a younger boy 17 Aug 10 0
Zachary 14 "You'll be sleeping with my little brother, silly!" 2 Aug 10 0
Jordan 16 I was lusting after my 10 yo best friend 23 Jul 10 0
Kit 23 Should I make love to my 13 yr old friend? 9 Nov 09 5 David 19 Feb 11
Junior J 14 Find pornography of people my own age? 25 May 09 3 Crane 23 Mar 11
Justin 14 It was the only time I felt I was important. 26 Apr 08 0    
Elmin   Are you advocating pedophilia? 7 Sep 07 1 Cody 8 Aug 09
Tim   Is this site for real? Safe? I'm afraid. 10 Aug 07 1 Cody 8 Aug 09
Mike 20 Younger teens going after older teens? 19 Jul 07 5 Xaeyious 15 Nov 09
David 20 Getting over what treatment did to me 11 Jul 07 2 Andrew 2 May 08
Bob 15 Find others my age to share feelings with 27 Jun 07 4 Robert 13 Aug 09
Kevin 17 Fantasies about sex with boys... Wrong? 9 Jun 07 3 Stan 12 Sep07
James 16 Where does it come from? 6 Jun 07 1 Cody 22 Jul 07
SoSexy 17 Straight male likes prepubescent boys 1 Jun 07 11 Drakar 12 May 11
"I" 26 I downloaded porn from the internet. 23 May 07 3 Shawn 10 Nov 07
Shane 15 So how do I find out if he likes me? 19 May 07 1 Jake 8 Nov 07
Snakeyes 35 Is it wrong to be attracted to young boys? 27 Apr 07 1 Cody 15 Jul 07
"Me" 14 Friends with boys, older BL, girlfriend. Help! 7 Apr 07 1 Jamie 17 Apr 07
Jonty 23 How do I improve my self control? 31 Mar 07 1 Cody 18 Apr 07
Joe 23 I hate myself so much it hurts inside. 19 Mar 07 1 Matsuri 16 Apr 07
Maty 19 What I should do to minimize these urges? 17 Feb 07 0    
Adam 15 I feel like a monster but I know I'm not. 10 Feb 07 1 Tony 24 Oct 07
Graeme 28 Boys sportswear - wrong to look? 23 Oct 06 1 Steve 24 May 07
Justin 21 For fear of being labeled a pedophile 18 Oct 06 1 Dr. 24 Apr 07
Anon   Is there "therapy" for boylove? 11 Oct 06 1 Jon 27 Apr 08
FrankF 17 I feel sex is nasty. Masturbation is safer. 11 Oct 06 0    
Matt   Is "incest" among young brothers illegal? 05 Oct 06 1 Cody 18 Oct 06
Danny 25 My 6 yo brother accused me of abuse. 30 Sep 06 1 Jonty 23 Mar 07
Joe 13 I'm sorta involved with an older guy. 26 Sep 06 2 Shiro 01 Sep 06
Pete 33 I struggle liking young boys, feel isolated. 17 Sep 06 2 Maty 18 Feb 07
Maddox 15 I just want to live a normal life. 27 Aug 06 3 kidshady 13 Jun 08
Repdetect 23 No girlfriend, people are starting to wonder. 17 Aug 06 1 Cody 1 Sep 06
Lance 21 I am just as confused and angry as ever. 30 Jul 06 1 Cody 1 Sep 06
Nick 21 I fall for boys at least 9 years younger. 29 Jul 06 4 Shawn 10 Nov 06
Boaboy 21 Should I work in a children's home? 15 Jul 06 3 Coif 10 Feb 07
Shiro 23 How do the age of consent laws work? 19 Jun 06 4 Shawn 10 Nov 06
Cody 17 "Who can I talk to?" Who can you trust? 17 Jun 06 5 Forget 12 Aug 09
Jason 46 A curse, or something positive? 9 Jun 06 2 Shiro 16 Jun 06
Andy 17 Feelings of being molested; being a BL? 26 May 06 3 Boaboy 15 Jul 06
Vince 15 How do you get a boy to notice you? 15 May 06 1 Cody 17 May 06
Vince 15 How can i stop the self hate? 12 May 06 2 Cody 17 May06
Andy 17 Is It Ever Okay To Use Child Porn? 9 May 06 5 Spoonsh.. 19 Jul 06
Christophe 20 How can I live? 16 Apr 06 2 Spoonsh.. 1 Aug 06
john 21 I just wish i had some one to talk to. 18 Jan 06 2 bobby 5 Apr 06
***** 19 I don't know if I'm a boylover. 12 Dec 05 3 Snakeyes 27 Apr 07
Marc   I'm desparate. 27 Nov 05 1 Matthew 29 Nov 05
Matsuri 26 I've lost my best friend. What do I do? 6 Oct 05 2 Matsuri 16 Apr 07
Basit 22 How can I tell my family? 10 Sep 05 0    
krkxx 27 Is it okay to have a boylover friend? 2 Sep 05 0    
Chelel 16 When can we legally be together? 3 Aug 05 0    
Lost 15 Is there something wrong with me? 28 Jan 05 3 Les 27 Jul 05
Bobby 19 Seeing boys in underwear get me in trouble? 17 Jan 05 0    
Nick 15 Anything I can do to stop being a BL? 9 Jan 05 6 Snakeyes 27 Apr 07
Donald 19 Can't have a relationship; lost and helpless. 3 Jan 05 3 Daniel 19 Oct 05
Fred   Discussing adult/youth sexual encounters? 7 Dec 04 1 Matthew 8 Dec 04
Kty 17 Explain the age of consent for new york. 30 Nov 04 2 Vinny 17 Sep 05
Skyler 20 How did your YF relationship come about? 25 Nov 04 1 Cody 8 Dec 04
Andrew 20 Did you have an AF you were sexual with? 26 Oct 04 0    
Tristan 17 How do I understand my weird orientation? 22 Oct 04 1 Matthew 30 Oct 04
Josh 19 Wanting to talk with somebody in real life 24 Sep 04 7 Adam 28 Mar 06
Jiji 19 I love little boys, what can I do for this? 18 Sep 04 2 Andrew 26 Oct 04
Lance 19 I think I am a boylover. I am very unhappy. 22 Jul 04 4 Kyle 13 Mar 06
Ahmed 23 Why do boys leave me? 26 May 04 3 amanda 25 Sep 05
Dave 41 Is age of consent same as being a minor? 11 May 04 3 Kid 16 Jul 06
Jasper 23 Are sexual fantasies about boys wrong? 31 Mar 04 2 fntm 13 Apr 04
Falcon 24 Pictures of boys in speedos 9 Mar 04 7 donald 5 Oct 05
Asianboi 18 Scared that someone will notice 29 Feb 04 1 fntm 19 Jun 04
Ahmad 28 Arabic country... 3 Feb 04 2 rony 2 Jun 05
Michael 19 Problems controlling myself 30 Jan 04 3 Donald 3 Jan 05
Espen 23 End it, hurt him? 10 Jan 04 4 Espen 18 Mar 04
Kevin 29 How is it? 5 Jan 04 2 FireFox 12 Apr 04
Robby 15 Should I say something? 6 Nov 03 4 Jim 11 Sep 04
David 28 Looking at legal pics 26 Oct 03 7 chris 16 Jan 06
Francis 21 Is befriending a young child illegal? 11 Oct 03 4 Cody 17 Oct 03
Flik 18 How do I break it off? 3 Oct 03 4 Ryan 9 Nov 03
Pete ? How do you cope with it?   7 Cordenas 11 Nov 03
Andrew 23 Why can't I say what I feel?   3 Gary 17 Oct 04
Joey 23 Would it be wrong?   5 Jack 24 Jun 04
Alfonso 19 How do you deal with the longing?   3 Steven 25 Oct 03
Michael 19 How can I be happy?   1 Alfonso  
James 24 An unhealthy obsession?   2 Joe_uk 11 Sep 03
Dustin 18 Are my feelings evil?   10 Pat 28 Dec 03



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